But men do not seem to value any level of purity anymore. Even though I tell a is really changing my view of men and I'm fighting the hate because I don't want to become “that girl”.Your belief that you have an amazing body and are great in bed has nothing to do with finding and keeping the man of your dreams.You may temporarily attract a man with your sexual prowess, but it isn't the act itself that makes sex great; it's intellect and love combined with the act, along with a few other things.
I am healthy, and do have sexual desires, but like you, I think that is something to be saved for marriage. There's no need to announce it; it's the last thing that a man wants to hear.While your objective is to make sure the man truly likes you and gets to know you before you give up the goodies, be realistic.Photo cred: [email protected] A woman has to know her boundaries before convincing others she is waiting for sex. Some may disagree, but what’s the point of leading him on?You don’t have to blurt it out in the first convo, if you are attracted to each other, sex is gonna come up in one way or another anyway. And if he doesn’t bring it up, ask him how he feels about sex then mention your own beliefs.Today’s reader asks: Hey Single Black Male first off I like the site keep it up.